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Bad Bitch Energy was designed for confidence, sex appeal, glamour, charisma, and that very specific energy of walking into a room knowing you belong there.

This is the kit for when you're ready for a glow up, need your confidence back, have something big coming up, want to feel hot as hell, or have simply spent entirely too much time worrying about what other people think of you.

It's not really about becoming a different person. The whole point is to bring forward the version of you who isn't constantly second-guessing herself.

Use it before dates, interviews, performances, launches, photo shoots, important conversations, nights out, or anytime you need a little reminder that you're actually kind of a bad bitch.

If you're a baby witch, you'll find detailed instructions to walk you through everything. No gatekeeping here.

If you're a seasoned practitioner, take a look anyway. I've included information about your kit, techniques I've found especially helpful beyond just lighting a wick, and different ways you can continue working with everything after the initial ritual is complete.

Full Ritual Instructions

Start by creating a space that actually makes you feel good. Put on music that makes you feel confident and sexy. Light some incense. Pour yourself a drink. Do your makeup first if that's part of what makes you feel like yourself. There is no reason this needs to feel solemn.

The included herbal blend can be burned on charcoal as incense, or you can use whatever incense you already love.

Next, cleanse yourself and your space using whatever method you normally prefer. Palo santo, cedar, sage, incense, Florida Water, sound, a spiritual wash—use what makes sense for your practice.

As you cleanse yourself, think specifically about what you're trying to get rid of. Maybe it's insecurity. Maybe it's comparison. Maybe somebody rejected you and fucked with your confidence a little. Maybe you've gotten into the habit of making yourself smaller so everybody else can be comfortable.

Whatever it is, name it and get it off you.

If you'd like, set up a small altar or working space. I especially love using a mirror for this ritual because we're doing glamour and confidence work. You can also add jewelry, perfume, makeup, flowers, photographs of yourself that make you feel beautiful, your vision board, or anything connected to the version of yourself you're trying to bring forward.

Now you're going to write your petition.

Instead of writing about what you want to be, write about yourself as though it's already true.

For example:

I am gorgeous. I am confident. I am the baddest baddie I know. I'm that girl. The universe begs me to work in my favor. I'm a literal goddess and everyone knows it. I always get everything I want. 

You don't need to use mine. In fact, I'd rather you didn't if they don't sound like you. Write down the things you need to believe about yourself and the energy you want to carry with you.

You can also make your petition about something specific. If you're doing this because you have an interview tomorrow, write about yourself walking into that interview confident, prepared, charming, and completely capable. If it's for a date, maybe you're calling in confidence, sex appeal, good conversation, and the ability to relax and actually have fun.

Once you've written your petition, hold the paper between your hands and spend a few minutes visualizing it as already true.

Don't just picture what you look like. Think about what it actually feels like to be that confident. How do you walk into a room? How do you speak? How do you respond when somebody compliments you? What aren't you putting up with anymore? What are you finally brave enough to do?

Sit with that feeling for a minute and put all of it into your petition.

Next, hold your candle and charge it with that same intention.

Carve your name into the candle. You can also carve words, affirmations, sigils, hearts, crowns, flames, or whatever symbols make sense for your particular working.

Apply a small amount of Bad Bitch Energy Ritual Oil to the candle.

Sprinkle a pinch of the herbal blend onto your petition paper, then lightly roll the dressed candle through the herbs while speaking your intention aloud.

Place the candle into the included cast iron holder and set it inside a fire-safe bowl or dish.

Fold your petition toward yourself to draw your intention toward you. Turn the paper clockwise and fold it toward yourself again, continuing until it's small enough to place beneath your candle holder.

Light your candle.

If you're using a mirror, spend a few minutes looking at yourself while you repeat the words you wrote in your petition.

And yes, it might feel a little ridiculous at first. Do it anyway.

There's something very different about thinking I'm confident versus having to look yourself directly in the face and actually say it.

Let the candle burn completely somewhere safe.

Once it has finished, leave your petition beneath the candle holder overnight. The next day, you can burn it to ash in a fire-safe container, keep it somewhere private, tuck it into your journal, or put it behind your mirror so you can continue working with it.

And then here's the important part: actually give the magic something to work with.

Wear the thing. Apply for the job. Ask them out. Post the photo. Introduce yourself. Set the boundary. Ask for more money.

You did not just do all that spellwork to stare at yourself in the mirror and feel good for a minute.

Working With Your Kit

Each ritual kit contains enough oil and herbal material for up to 30 rituals or spell workings, depending on how heavily they are used.

Herbal Blend

Use for candle dressing, incense, offerings, glamour work, confidence rituals, attraction magic, self-love practices, creative work, or any spell focused on personal empowerment.

Ritual Oil

Use on candles, petitions, mirrors, jewelry, perfume bottles, ritual tools, vision boards, journals, planners, and objects connected to your personal goals. May also be worn on pulse points before dates, interviews, networking events, performances, presentations, important conversations, photo shoots, or anytime you want to step into your most confident self.

Pink or Red Chime Candle

For confidence, passion, courage, charisma, attraction, and personal power.

Cast Iron Chime Candle Holder

Designed for use with the included chime candle.

Ongoing Use

Many practitioners continue working with the included oil before first dates, interviews, networking events, business launches, content creation, performances, public speaking, important conversations, or whenever they wish to strengthen their confidence, personal magnetism, and sense of self.

Each ritual kit contains enough oil and herbal material for up to 30 individual workings when used primarily for candle dressing. Additional chime candles may be used to revisit the ritual whenever desired.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need experience to use this kit?

Not at all. Bad Bitch Energy was designed to be approachable for beginners while remaining useful for experienced practitioners.

What can I use this ritual for?

Many practitioners use this ritual before dates, interviews, performances, business launches, photo shoots, important conversations, networking events, creative projects, or anytime they want to feel more confident, magnetic, and fully themselves.

How often can I perform the ritual?

As often as you feel called. Many practitioners revisit this work during the new moon, before important events, during periods of self-doubt, or whenever they need to get their mojo back.

Do I have to use all of the herbs and oil at once?

Please don't!

A little goes a long way. Most kits contain enough material for up to 30 individual workings when used primarily for candle dressing. Additional herbs and oil may be used for incense, offerings, altar work, glamour magic, and other confidence-focused spiritual practices as desired.

Continue the Work

The ritual doesn't have to end when the candle burns out. If you'd like to continue the work, here are a few of my favorite companions to this ritual.

• Self Care Gift Set: So In Love With Me Herbal Bath and Tea (build the relationship with yourself)

  • The strongest relationships begin with the one you have with yourself. This tea and herbal bath ritual encourages self-love, confidence, and emotional healing.

• Venus Ritual Tea (work with the planet of love)

  • Sip in honor of Venus to invite love, harmony, beauty, and meaningful relationships into your life.

• Bad Bitch Energy Ritual Oil (remember your worth)

  • Healthy love begins with knowing you deserve it. Wear this ritual oil whenever you need a reminder of your confidence, your strength, and everything you bring to the table.