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This ritual was designed to help attract prosperity, opportunities, gifts, support, favorable treatment, patrons, benefactors, and people who genuinely enjoy contributing to your success.

Despite the name, Bring Me A Sugar Zaddy isn't necessarily about attracting a wealthy romantic partner. Sometimes it is. Sometimes it's the perfect client. Sometimes it's an investor, mentor, employer, supporter, referral source, generous friend, or simply a season of life where resources seem to arrive more easily than expected.

This is an attraction ritual centered on receiving, magnetism, and opening yourself to prosperity, opportunities, gifts, and support from both expected and unexpected sources.

If you're a baby witch, you'll find detailed instructions to guide you through the process. No gatekeeping here.

If you're a seasoned practitioner, take a look anyway. Included is helpful information on your kit, techniques I have found to be especially effective beyond lighting a wick, and suggestions for continuing the work after the initial ritual is complete.

Full Ritual Instructions

Begin by creating sacred space. Light incense and play music that helps you shift into a ritual mindset. The included herbal blend may be burned on charcoal, or you may use an incense of your own choosing.

Cleanse both your aura and your physical space by lighting the included ethically sourced Peruvian Palo Santo stick. As the smoke rises, visualize scarcity, lack, closed doors, and resistance to receiving dissolving and leaving your field.

If desired, create an altar or ritual workspace using candles, cash, coins, jewelry, business cards, photographs, luxury items, symbols of abundance, or other meaningful objects connected to prosperity and success. If you do not maintain a formal spiritual practice, simply choose a quiet space where you can focus clearly on your intention.

On a piece of paper, write a clear and specific petition describing the prosperity, opportunities, gifts, support, or abundance you wish to attract. Focus on the outcome you desire rather than your current circumstances.

Hold the petition paper between your hands and charge it with your intention. Visualize yourself already receiving what you have requested. See opportunities arriving, gifts being offered, clients appearing, doors opening, and resources flowing freely into your life. Allow yourself to fully experience the feelings of gratitude, relief, confidence, and abundance.

Next, hold the candle in your hands and charge it with the same intention. Carve names, dollar signs, symbols, sigils, affirmations, or phrases related to your desired outcome into the wax.

Apply the ritual oil to the candle, sprinkle a small amount of herbal blend onto your petition paper, then roll the candle through the herbs while speaking your intention aloud.

Place the dressed candle into the included cast iron holder and set it inside a fire-safe bowl or dish. Fold your petition paper toward yourself once, then continue folding clockwise four times to draw opportunities, resources, and support inward. Place the folded petition beneath the candle holder.

Light the candle and allow it to burn completely. Spend a few moments visualizing yourself receiving exactly what you need and more than enough to share. Focus on feelings of prosperity rather than desperation.

Once the candle has finished burning, leave the petition beneath the holder overnight. The following day, either burn the petition to ash in a fire-safe container or place it somewhere associated with prosperity and success, such as a wallet, cash box, business workspace, altar, or financial records.

So mote it be.

Working With Your Kit

Each ritual kit contains enough oil and herbal material for up to 30 rituals or spell workings, depending on how heavily they are used.

Herbal Blend

Use for candle dressing, incense, offerings, prosperity work, attraction rituals, money bowls, charm bags, business workings, or abundance-focused spiritual practices.

Ritual Oil

Use on candles, petitions, wallets, business tools, cash boxes, journals, planners, ritual tools, and objects connected to your goals. May also be worn on pulse points before important meetings, interviews, sales calls, networking events, or business opportunities.

Red Chime Candle

For passion, fast-action, energy, and love.

Cast Iron Chime Candle Holder

Designed for use with the included chime candle.

Online-Exclusive Palo Santo

Use to cleanse yourself, your ritual tools, and your space before ritual work. May also be used whenever you feel blocked, stagnant, discouraged, or disconnected from abundance.

Ongoing Use

Many practitioners continue working with the included oil before job interviews, networking opportunities, launches, sales events, important business meetings, negotiations, client work, or prosperity rituals.

Each ritual kit contains enough oil and herbal material for up to 30 individual workings when used primarily for candle dressing. Additional chime candles may be used to revisit the ritual whenever desired.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need experience to use this kit?

Not at all. Bring Me A Sugar Zaddy was designed to be approachable for beginners while remaining useful for experienced practitioners.

Do I need to be looking for a romantic partner to use this kit?

Absolutely not.

While some practitioners use this ritual to attract generous romantic partners, many use it for business opportunities, ideal clients, supportive connections, patrons, mentors, referrals, gifts, unexpected blessings, and general prosperity.

Can I use this for my business?

Absolutely.

Many practitioners use this ritual to attract customers, increase sales, secure contracts, improve cash flow, generate referrals, or create new opportunities for growth and success.

How often can I perform the ritual?

As often as you feel called. Many practitioners revisit prosperity work monthly, during new moons, before launches, during job searches, or whenever they feel stuck or unsupported.

Do I have to use all of the herbs and oil at once?

Please don't!

A little goes a long way. Most kits contain enough material for up to 30 individual workings when used primarily for candle dressing. Additional herbs and oil may be used for incense, offerings, money bowls, altar work, and other ritual purposes as desired.