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This ritual was designed to help call in a stable partner, passionate sex, mutual desire, generosity, devotion, abundance, and the kind of connection that adds to your life rather than drains it.

Summon Your King or Queen isn't only about attracting romance. Sometimes it is. Sometimes it's calling in a committed partner, a more generous lover, a supportive relationship, deeper passion, or a season of life where love, pleasure, stability, and resources flow toward you with greater ease.

This is an attraction ritual centered on magnetism, receiving, sensuality, confidence, and opening yourself to love, pleasure, support, and abundance from both expected and unexpected sources.

If you're a baby witch, you'll find detailed instructions to guide you through the process. No gatekeeping here.

If you're a seasoned practitioner, take a look anyway. Included is helpful information on your kit, techniques I have found to be especially effective beyond lighting a wick, and suggestions for continuing the work after the initial ritual is complete.

Full Ritual Instructions

Begin by creating sacred space. Light incense and play music that helps you shift into a ritual mindset. The included herbal blend may be burned on charcoal, or you may use an incense of your own choosing.

Cleanse both your aura and your physical space using your preferred method of spiritual cleansing. You may choose to light palo santo, cedar, sage, incense, or another cleansing herb or resin that aligns with your practice. As the smoke rises, visualize fear, lack, loneliness, desperation, and resistance to receiving dissolving and leaving your field. Imagine yourself surrounded by warm, radiant, magnetic light.

If desired, create an altar or ritual workspace using candles, flowers, honey, wine, jewelry, perfume, coins, rose quartz, garnet, carnelian, symbols of partnership, or other meaningful objects connected to love, passion, pleasure, and abundance. If you do not maintain a formal spiritual practice, simply choose a quiet space where you can focus clearly on your intention.

On a piece of paper, write a clear and specific petition describing the love, passion, stability, devotion, generosity, pleasure, or abundance you wish to attract. Focus on how you want to feel and be treated, not on chasing a specific person.

Hold the petition paper between your hands and charge it with your intention. Visualize yourself already receiving the relationship, intimacy, affection, support, and abundance you desire. See yourself adored, desired, respected, chosen, and provided for in ways that feel safe, mutual, and aligned.

Next, hold the candle in your hands and charge it with the same intention. Carve names, hearts, symbols, sigils, affirmations, or phrases related to your desired outcome into the wax.

Apply the ritual oil to the candle, sprinkle a small amount of herbal blend onto your petition paper, then roll the candle through the herbs while speaking your intention aloud.

Place the dressed candle into the included cast iron holder and set it inside a fire-safe bowl or dish. Fold your petition paper toward yourself once, then continue folding clockwise four times to draw love, passion, stability, pleasure, and abundance inward. Place the folded petition beneath the candle holder.

Light the candle and allow it to burn completely. Spend a few moments visualizing yourself in your most magnetic state. Feel wanted, cherished, confident, sensual, supported, and secure. Focus on receiving from a place of worthiness, not longing.

Once the candle has finished burning, leave the petition beneath the holder overnight. The following day, either burn the petition to ash in a fire-safe container or place it somewhere associated with love, beauty, pleasure, or abundance, such as beneath your mattress, on your altar, in a jewelry box, near your perfume, in your wallet, or beside symbols of partnership and devotion.

So mote it be.

Working With Your Kit

Each ritual kit contains enough oil and herbal material for up to 30 rituals or spell workings, depending on how heavily they are used.

Herbal Blend

Use for candle dressing, incense, offerings, attraction rituals, love work, glamour work, money bowls, charm bags, sensuality work, or abundance-focused spiritual practices.

Ritual Oil

Use on candles, petitions, ritual tools, wallets, jewelry, mirrors, perfume bottles, charm bags, altar items, and objects connected to your goals. May also be worn on pulse points before dates, intimacy, networking, social events, business opportunities, or any moment when you want to feel magnetic and receptive.

Red Chime Candle

For passion, fast action, desire, attraction, confidence, and love.

Cast Iron Chime Candle Holder

Designed for use with the included chime candle.

Ongoing Use

Many practitioners continue working with the included oil before dates, romantic conversations, intimacy, social events, launches, sales opportunities, networking, or any moment when they want to feel more confident, desirable, supported, and abundant.

Each ritual kit contains enough oil and herbal material for up to 30 individual workings when used primarily for candle dressing. Additional chime candles may be used to revisit the ritual whenever desired.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need experience to use this kit?

Not at all. Summon Your King or Queen was designed to be approachable for beginners while remaining useful for experienced practitioners.

Do I need to be looking for a romantic partner to use this kit?

No. While many practitioners use this ritual to attract love, passion, commitment, or a stable partner, it may also be used to increase confidence, sensual magnetism, abundance, generosity, support, and opportunities to receive.

Can I use this to attract a specific person?

This ritual is best used to call in the qualities, treatment, passion, stability, and devotion you desire rather than trying to control a specific person. Focus on aligned love, mutual desire, and a connection that genuinely supports your highest good.

Can I use this for abundance too?

Absolutely. This ritual blends love, passion, magnetism, and receiving energy. Many practitioners use it to attract supportive partners, generous lovers, better opportunities, gifts, money, clients, patrons, or a more abundant season of life.

How often can I perform the ritual?

As often as you feel called. Many practitioners revisit attraction work during the new moon, on Fridays, before dates, before launches, during relationship transitions, or whenever they want to strengthen their magnetism and receptivity.

Do I have to use all of the herbs and oil at once?

Please don't!

A little goes a long way. Most kits contain enough material for up to 30 individual workings when used primarily for candle dressing. Additional herbs and oil may be used for incense, offerings, money bowls, attraction work, altar work, and other ritual purposes as desired.